To give birth to a son is to have offspring. In ancient times, a woman who bore a son was revered. The woman who gave birth to three sons was honored, honored, and empowered.
The boys are special. Because “a man grows up, he does not feel well” and, at one glance, he becomes the head of a household. How the fire behaves is based on the man’s intelligence, the woman’s uranium and deeds. Therefore, the Mongolian children were raised with special importance in order to enable them to make decisions and be able to handle their families. Here are some ladies’ tips for women with men and women:
1.Don’t laugh at your son anymore
For a man, laughing for a woman is a big psychological blow, and a laughing for a mother is a bigger blow. It is wrong to laugh at your son when he shows off his trousers or when he mumbles about something specific, such as when he draws a sloppy dog and expresses his love for a girl at the side table. Your laugh will be remembered by your son all his life. The main thing is never to forget.
2.Answer each question
It doesn’t matter how old you are. Nor can it be any answer that is “grown up” or “doesn’t matter to the child”. Please answer. If you don’t know the answer then just say it. Then, when you find out, answer the question. What to do if you feel embarrassed? Well done. You will know that you have another drawback. Shame on you – is it not your fault? Do not infect it with children. Ask yourself time to think that the questions you ask are difficult to answer right away. The child will be given enough time to enjoy.
3. Ask your son for advice when making a decision
How often and how often do you think your child will make the most of your monthly troubles? Whatever the subject. What kind of house would we like to have? From the beginning, why am I always arguing with someone, or what am I doing wrong? and all kinds of things. In this way, the nature of a man in our child will begin to sit, and soon he will be your support. But you must always show that you trust and respect him.
4.Forget the word, “ I told you. ”
Do not “sing” this song, even if the child has forgotten what you have said. Forget forever. You don’t have to compete with a child for anything, and if “I told you so,” it’s a competition your mum is happy about. Even if you are right, rejoice in the silence. And then naturally.
5. Praise, Bless Praise your child for nothing in vain …
Just “how cool.” Your child will be cool too. When you grow up, you see for yourself, “If this happened.”
6.Support your dreams
“Want to Become an Underwater Archaeologist” – Right. Get a book on this topic. Then he will be “an artist.” That’s right. I’ll buy another book. Even when being an engineer. The principle is clear, isn’t it? Whenever your child is in their 20’s, they have to make their own decisions, they have to support every single dream.
7.When a child is crying … Crying means it’s gone.
For us, the smallest thing (not to give your favorite food in the garden), but for them it is a huge deal. Because the world of our children is so small at this time, they still do not like big food. If crying, calm down. No matter how old he is. Let it soak. This is the law and the foundation for future relationships between you and the child, and you should not cry alone. Never.
8.Don’t say No comment here.
9.Always lie on his side
Be on his side not only in word but also in deed. Don’t blame the teacher for scolding her, for scouting family and other friends. Next to people, he should always be right. If so, your son will share the most important secret with you. Because he’s completely convinced that you won’t be screaming, “What are you asking?” Or “Shame on you.” In other words, because he trusts you. Isn’t the faith of your children the dream of a mother? That can only be found in the way above.